Thursday, November 01, 2007

big girls don't cry

so. follow up to the drama.

crazy-ass nicole finally admitted that SHE was the only one upset, that she made up all the stuff about my family being mad at me/MH, that the reason she was upset was not because we were "lying" to her but that she felt slighted that MH wasn't spending enough time with her. crazy girl finally admitted she was jealous. she didn't admit this to me, of course. but she and MH worked everything out, only after MH kissing major ass to make her feel better, but he was willing to do it just to make peace.

she kept asking him how the two of us work, since we're very different, and he reassured her that things do work and that we really very much do like each other. but she still sounded incredulous. like i'm not good enough for him, or something. it's not an issue she has to understand, just something she needs to accept and if she's mature enough, something she can be happy for him about.

i talked to my sister-in-law about it, who is pretty close to nicole, and even she rolled her eyes at nicole's antics. we don't understand nicole's feeling of "competition" with me. she gets upset when i spend time with my brother, too. well hello, newsflash sweetie, he's my BROTHER and hello, i haven't been around in oh 10 years, so yeah it'd be cool for me and him to hang out. my whole family sees that she's crazy in this regard, but no one but me has to deal with it as a personal attack on them.

so it appears all is back to normal. well our normal anyway. i've still got to track down lil bro and give him a heads up, and i'll be sure to leave out my own commentary about how his girlfriend is an immature crazy psycho.

in other news, i got britney's new album. it effing rocks. perfect running music....so folks i'm off....i definitely need a run to clear out the toxins! sheesh!

5 comments:

jen said...

Wow, just got caught up... I'm glad things are settling down but what a giant bunch of BS. Hers are the actions of a disrespectful, manipulative, immature person. You did nothing wrong, of course. I hope you can spend some quality time with your family to reassure you that it's all good... family relationships are so important and it kills me that someone would undermine that for their own personal reasons.

Sometimes unpleasant people are foreced into our lives and it is a big challenge to remain mature and amicable when all we want to do is punch, punch, punch. But you're doing great. You're a good person. :)

Lauren said...

oh goodness.

good luck with that icky situation!

Jess said...

Good thing everything settled down.

You're still supporting Britney after all the hullabaloo?

MissAllycat said...

Glad things are calming down. Family drama is always sticky. Especially when love and relationships are involved.

I can't agree more about Britney's album. I was bracing myself to be disappointed...but it is so damn upbeat. Sigh. Even if the girl has a one-way ticket to crazy town, she can still create some catchy tunes.

Rhea said...

So it wasn't your brother telling you that he was mad at MH, it was Nicole saying your brother was mad? Huh. He needs to know that she is putting words in his mouth! She could use some therapy. And swift kick in the butt.